The Hrunting - Searching for oneself

Would it be more appropriate for them to be ‘Penetrative condom’ or ‘Receptive condom’ instead of ‘Male’ or ‘Female’?  I mean, it would be difficult to dissociate the terms from one another, given that Male or Female are the way they are marketed to the mainstream.  
I can’t think of something to address ftm penis [plu. …es?], generally from a lack of experience or thought yet. X.x please bear with my new-ness to this. (clitoris feels disrespectful, imo.  But ftm penis almost feels demeaning.  I mean, it is a penis.  Does it need distinction from any other penis?  Is it more/less appropriate to simply say penis?  Or does that lose context?  I’ll definitely edit this once I find an acceptable term.  Readers, help??!  What is the correct term?)